Vanessa, 47

Different people have different energies. Mine is like a cat's: independent, attentive, a little playful, but not for everyone. I don't jump into conversations right away, I don't open up quickly, and I don't get carried away by coincidences. I look at a man, assess his posture, his way of writing, his reactions. It's important for me to feel that I'm not just a random passerby, but someone who can keep up with me. On this dating site, I'm looking for a man for a relationship, not for short episodes that are forgotten faster than a read message. I need someone who has their own inner axis and is not afraid of a woman who has one too. I have enough tenderness, but it is not given out randomly. There is flirting, but it is not for attention, but to see if the same impulse will appear between two people. There is a little predatory smile that arises when I see a man's confidence that harmonizes with mine. I do not pursue. I allow myself to be found - by those who really see and feel. And if you are one of those who is not afraid of a woman with character, who knows how to respond clearly but with warmth, then something worthwhile can arise between us.Read more

I appreciate activity and emotions: mountain descents, traveling to different countries, good literature, music, and sports that give the body lightness and clarity to thoughts.

I want to meet a man whose energy is in tune with mine. A relationship for me is a union of two adults who are not afraid of intimacy.